Support Groups
We run “When Love Hurts” support groups in New Westminster, Langley, Coquitlam, Abbotsford, Mission and Chilliwack. If you would like more information about the support group, please email me at Or phone me at 604-528-8042
We run “When Love Hurts” support groups in New Westminster, Langley, Coquitlam, Abbotsford, Mission and Chilliwack. If you would like more information about the support group, please email me at Or phone me at 604-528-8042
Many women who have been abused are afraid of anger. This makes sense. Their partner’s anger has been very damaging to them. Sometimes women are not sure what to do about their own anger. It seems to me that anger can have many faces. Sometimes anger can be about protecting ourselves or someone else. If…
This video explores the different types of abuse – psychological, spiritual, cultural, emotional etc. This video will help those seeking to support women who have been abused as well as women themselves.
Abusive men have patterns to their behaviour. One of those patterns is that they tend to shift blame from themselves and on to others – particularly their partners. They hone their blame shifting skills to a very high level. For example, a man might blame his failure to live up to a responsibility (like picking…
One in four women will be raped in their life-time. What a shocking statistic. 84% of women who are raped know their attacker. They are raped by their current for former husbands, boyfriends, family members or acquaintances. Many of the women I work with have been raped by husbands or boyfriends. Many more have been…
Is there a pattern? Most women, living with an abusive partner, find it hard to see any pattern to the abuse. His behaviour seems bizarre and unpredictable. It seems unbelievable that the same person, who is kind and affectionate one day, could be cruel and malicious another. His hurtful behaviour seems to come as isolated…
I blogged yesterday about focusing on self-care instead of self-esteem. A woman from group recently talked to me about this. Her quote (used with permission) really says it all… “I liked how the group focused on self-care and not self-esteem. I was always judged for ‘letting’ the abuse happen to me because of my ‘low…
Interested in a Langley group
I have just sent you an email so we can pick up this conversation from there. If you don’t get my email, please let me know or email me at karen@mcandless-davis.com. Karen.
Wondering about group in Langley as well.
I am not sure about Langley but for sure know there will be a group in North Surrey (King George and 106th). Email me and I can give you details: Karen@McAndless-Davis.com
Are there groups in Surrey currently? Where and when please, thank-you!
ruth
Hi I was wondering if there were any types of support groups like this in Calgary? Thanks!
Sorry for the slow response! Night Shift is Surrey runs “When Love Hurts” groups.
I left a v/m… but wondering where in Langley are there groups?
I will send you an email with the contact person for Langley.
Hi Karen. I am interested in a support group in Langley area if it is still running.
Yes. There is a support group in Langley. The next group is likely to start in early January. This is a good time to get your name on the list. Can you email me and I will connect you with the facilitator of the Langley group? My email is Karen@McAndless-Davis.com.
when is the next group in Abby?
The next group in Abbotsford will be in the fall. The Mennonite Central Committe sponsors that group. You can be in touch for details.
Do you know of any groups like this for men? Thank you for your time.
No, I am sorry. I do not. Karen.
Thank you
Just wondering if I could get signed up for either a Chilliwack or Abbotsford group?
I will send an email with contact info. Karen
Hi Karen, I just sent you an email and am wondering if there are any groups running this year at all?
Thank you
Meghan
Are there online groups?
There are “When Love Hurts” groups happening online. If you email me directly, I’ll see if I can set you up with something Karen@whenlovehurts.ca