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Karen McAndless-Davis, RCC

Karen comes to this work through personal experience. Her story is somewhat unique in that her husband sought out appropriate counselling, did the work, changed and they remain married. She is a Registered Professional Counsellor with a private practice in New Westminster, BC. The focus of her work, for almost 30 years, has been supporting women impacted by abuse.

As well as individual counselling, she leads support groups for women and trains professionals in best practices in the field of VAW. She and Jill Cory are the authors of When Love Hurts: A Woman’s Guide To Understanding Abuse in Relationship (Penguin Random House, 2016). 

Karen McAndless-Davis, RCC

Karen McAndless-Davis stands outside in a dark blue coat, with her hair in the wind.
Karen McAndless-Davis, RCC

Podcast episodes

The figure eight model of healing is over top an image of two women talking; episode eight.

Episode 8: Understanding the healing journey

Jan 5, 2026

In this episode, we explore the healing journey for women who have experienced abuse.

A man and woman hold a child's hand on both sides while walking away in the park.

Episode 7: Mothering, post separation abuse, and the legal system

Dec 29, 2025

How men’s abuse profoundly impacts mothering and how that abuse so often continues after separation through the legal system.

When Love Hurts podcast episode about the harms of professional help; a counsellor sits with a client, taking notes.

Episode 6: The harms of help

Dec 22, 2025

How services can repeat dynamics of abuse.

When stand together, arm in arm, walking away with the When Love Hurts podcast art in the foreground.

Episode 5: Why abusive men are abusive

Dec 15, 2025

In this episode, we take on the question women ask again and again: Why is he abusive?

Women stand side by side looking into the sunset over the water, with the podcast art for When Love Hurts in the foreground.

Welcome to Episode 4: The impacts of abuse for women

Dec 8, 2025

We want to thank you for joining us for this heavy, but essential, conversation. Be gentle with yourself as you listen; grab your coffee or tea and give yourself the space and time you need. Why we need to shift…

Episode 3 of When Love Hurts, a power and control wheel with many dimensions of abuse as spokes of the wheel.

Episode 3: Understanding the power and control wheel

Dec 1, 2025

In this episode of the When Love Hurts podcast, we unpack the realities of power and control in abusive relationships.