Five important things to know about men who are abusive…
#3: An abusive man will accuse his partner of being abusive. In the experience of the women we work with, most abusive men will say that their partner is abusive. This gets confusing for friends and family standing outside of the relationship. It is interesting that most women are very hesitant to use the word “abuse” but their partners are quick to assign it to the women and tell the whole world, “she is abusive”. For this reason, we think it is important to be skeptical if a man says his partner is abusive. (Come back tomorrow for #4)
Allison’s Story
We begin our book with one woman’s story. “Allison” is not this woman’s real name,…
Planning for Safety
How can I plan ahead? It may be difficult to plan for the future. Part…
The Cycle of Abuse
Is there a pattern? Most women, living with an abusive partner, find it hard to…
How do I heal from the abuse?
Each woman’s journey to wholeness and safety, after the devastating experience of abuse, is unique,…
Is there something wrong with me?
In order to keep yourself (and your children) safe emotionally and physically safe, you’ve had…
What about my children?
Will my children grow up to be abusive? If your children witness your partner’s abuse,…
Why does my partner hurt me?
No doubt you have spent a lot of time and energy trying to figure out…
Am I experiencing abuse?
Many women find it hard to imagine that they are being abused by their partners.…